Langkah-langkah yang bisa diambil berdasarkan perspektif orang pertama:
In every group of friends, there is a hierarchy. At the top is the Raja (King) or Ratu (Queen) – the one who decides where to hang out, who gets invited, and whose mood dictates the vibe of the GC (Group Chat). Then, there is the Budak.
Signs you are the Budak of your friend group: The POV of a budak is exhausting
The POV of a budak is exhausting. You operate on a currency of validasi (validation). You think that if you serve enough, you will eventually be promoted from budak to sahabat (best friend). Spoiler alert: You won't.
There comes a moment in every budak's life. It is usually at 3 AM, scrolling through old chats, realizing you have given 100% to someone who gave 10%. scrolling through old chats
The Awakening Mantra: "Gue capek jadi budak." (I am tired of being a slave.)
You realize that relationships are not feudal systems. They are gardens. If you are the only one watering the grass, the grass dies. Or worse, you die of dehydration holding the hose. the grass dies. Or worse
The first acts of rebellion: