You miss the potential of the person, not the reality. Borja sings to the person who was never fully there. Ask yourself: Are you grieving what was, or what you imagined?
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Borja’s song has become a textbook example of the "No Contact" rule used in therapy for codependency. By demanding that the other person not call, she is setting a hard boundary. In the lexicon of modern love, this is the ultimate act of self-care. It says: "My healing is more important than your guilt."